I started by thinking about what adventure meant to me -
Adventure is ~
- something exciting
- something challenging
- something that gives you a feeling of achievement and
- something new
So then I started to think about the adventures is my life. I'm not a 'gotta climb the highest mountain', 'gotta rescue elephants in Africa' type of person. I don't particularly like big roller coasters and I certainly have no desire whatsoever to bungee jump. I am a feet firmly on the ground (at all times!!!) type.
I am very lucky to have travelled quite a bit with my parents, mainly around Spain, Italy and France and so the urge to travel far and wide has only just kicked in!! I had a good education which gave me plenty of confidence in myself and my abilities - most of which has sadly been lost - but I am gradually regaining it, one baby step at a time :)
I have had a few small adventures along the meandering path of my life ~
* spending a month in Spain with my friend after we finished our 'O' levels
* moving out of home to a tiny flat in London
* our trip to DisneyWorld in Florida where I had to drive myself and 2 children in a rented car, on the wrong side of the road, with no idea how the signposting worked, to our house in Kissimmee!! After nearly 2 hours and asking at 2 petrol stations and stopping to buy a map we got there ( oh yes and it was 10 o'clock at night when we landed at Orlando!!)
* taking all 3 boys to Disneyland Paris on my own, after doing everything together for 21 years!
* travelling all the way to the middle of the USA on my own and having to change planes mid-way.
But the 5 main adventures in m y life have been ~
- getting married at 21 and moving to Cornwall. New life, new job (well after a couple of months of job searching anyway!!) :)
- Setting up my own business - selling designer children's clothes in Truro. The buying trips to London were super and then months later the stock would arrive and I had forgotten what I had ordered, so it was like Christmas - so exciting :) Having to deal with my own staff was definitely an adventure and sometimes a nightmare! Unfortunately, I had to close it down after 3 years :(
- Getting divorced. Suddenly a single mum - having to get my own mortgage, sell our house and move and look after 3 children while working full-time (thank goodness for a brilliant childminder)
- Being on my own again after all 3 boys decided to follow their dad and move to the USA
And last but not least ~~~~ PARENTHOOD!!! The biggest ADVENTURE of them all. And I did it 3 times !!!
It's an adventure because
- babies/children do not come with instructions
- they come attached with a massive responsibility ( decsions you make could, and often do, affect the whole of their lives *aaaagh!*)
- every day is an adventure for you and them - 1st steps, 1st words, 1st day at school, trips out, holidays, 1st girlfriend ................... the list goes on :)
We have been tasked to write ourselves a postcard detailing when we felt at our most adventurous and mail it to ourselves. When it arrives back I'll write about it here! :)